Why am i not intimidating
This covers the spectrum from higher ups at work, love interests, people we don't know at parties, popular people from school or the office, even celebrities. Often people we look up to (or those who we just don't know who seem cool) can bring up feelings we harbor about ourselves that we are not good enough, smart enough, interesting enough. We are all made from the same source and the truth is -- and this is repeated in many spiritual scriptures "we are all special and we are all not special." We are all equal, my friends. So, yeah, I'm a weak, imperfect person." Even wolves get scared!
We are also beautifully different from one another, too -- which means all of us have some unique value and flavor to add to a conversation or social setting. Here are some reasons why other people should not intimidate you: 1. The fear of others is generated within us, not by the person in question.
The sad part of this is that some people don’t even realize that they’re coming off this way.
More often than not, these people have a big heart and are very kind, but their strong personality makes them come off as aggressive or even rude.
Your career may have had a few hiccups, and your relationships are trademarked by tension, but your independent way of thinking isn’t wrong- it just rubs some people the wrong way.
You might have noticed that people are cautious when you approach, or when they see you, they give a quick hello, smile, and abruptly leave.
Success doesn't just have to be a work thing, either.
You may have a large social network or be an accomplished dancer or activist. If a man actually says "you're too intimidating" as an excuse to break up with you, let him walk away without any fuss.
Take the word "intimidating." That's got to be one of the most frustrating words in the whole dating world, am I right, ladies?
So she might avoid indulging in feelings of great superiority because such feelings make her feel vainglorious or selfish or megalomaniacal or arrogant, etc. But when you do not viscerally of those power differentials and their possible perils.
This makes it easier for you to fail to take proper care about the ways that those power differentials put extra burdens of responsibility on you to make sure you are benefitting, rather than harming, those who your power affects.
In addition to being a world-renowned comedian, talk show host, philanthropist, husband and father, Steve Harvey is the Chief Love Officer of online dating site Delightful.
He draws on his personal experiences and the stories that millions of people have shared with him over the years to help more people find and keep the love they deserve.