Bisexual women for dating
'Most of the people I've dated have been lesbian, not bisexual.Almost every single one has made me feel 'less-than' because I admit that I'm attracted to men sometimes.She's assuming I have no problem kissing her because I'm gay.But the fact is, I don't want to kiss her because she's my friend and not my type.One of the first times I went on a date with a girl, she asked me, "Are you bi or gay? Her response was: "I knew you were too good to be true."I then fell all over myself in an effort to explain to her that, although I was unsure about how to define my sexuality, I was definitely into girls, more so than I'm into guys.
But would they have a relationship with another woman? This pisses me off because it is both insensitive and hurtful.Since then, I've figured out that I'm solely into girls. But, alas, in parts of the gay community, being bi or being a lesbian who has hooked up with guys in the past is like having horns or an incurable disease. (Hello, boob circle photos.) They make being bisexual unacceptable in the eyes of some and are the reason even I can't say the word without putting air quotes around it.This isn't the case for all girls I have dated, but some don't want to date anyone who has been near a penis. Girls who have always been gay and nothing else carry it like a badge of honor. And, although for most of these girls it stops with a kiss or an innocent boob-grab, some of them actually identify themselves as bisexual, thus mucking things up for the whole gay community. One of my friends in particular finds it necessary to grab my face and plant a wet one on me every time she has had too much to drink.Whether you just started dating a bisexual girl or you aren't sure which questions are appropriate to ask her, there are a few things you need to know. It’s tough coming out to anyone, whether you’re bisexual, gay, lesbian or pansexual.Stop trying to delegitimize her sexual orientation. Every bisexual person gets asked this at least once in their life.