Dating essential men
Common sense would dictate that a girl finding out that you’re dating a few other girls at the same time wouldn’t put you in a great situation.
As it turned out, a few months later I reluctantly agreed to go on a “blind date” and knew immediately that I’d met the man I would marry. So that’s as close as I could come to “marrying without dating”. True love can be amazing, but it really doesn’t “fix” everything. Even the Bible talks about “the way of a man with a maid” as too wonderful to understand (Prov. Observe them in different contexts – work, home, leisure – and ask others what they see too.
A little confidence goes a long way I used to date a very sweet but shy guy who laughed every time he felt uncomfortable.
That awkward laugh made me feel pretty uncomfortable as well.
It is easy to overlook and not address or discuss the important things that may raise concerns as you cultivate this relationship which you envision moving from dating to engagement and, hopefully, marriage.
As Christians, we should be intentional and deliberate in how we date, ensuring that we protect each other's hearts and emotions.