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Friends tell me I should leave because I'll be hurt in the end, but I feel like with time, maybe he will want something after he moves past his marriage.
I'm just not sure whether I should stay in it and wait it out, or not.
When a married man courts a woman, he takes a huge risk—a risk that reveals he wants her very much.
His time with her, whether texting, secret coffee dates, or time spent in her bed, reveals a commitment much deeper than the single men she has been with. They didn’t have to engage in clandestine plans and think of elaborate excuses.
If you happen to make it through living in West Africa without ever being courted by a married man then I envy you. Before I made the move from NY, I was sure and certain that I would never ever be one of those girls.
Since moving back to West Africa in 2007, more married than single men have attempted to court me.
One night, we were out just the two of us, and he told me his wife had been traveling for work for the past few months and their marriage was basically over. He said he had dealt with all his feelings and had accepted it. We decided that we'd be exclusively sleeping with each other, and we go on dates and spend a lot of time together, but he doesn't want anything more serious.
Fast forward 10 years on the continent and girrrrllllll!!!!
Nevertheless, the situation is certainly very tempting and if an irresistible woman gives even the slightest hint of opportunity, its quite likely for a man to cheat or at least, take a little pleasure for some time.
Cheating men are confident that they wont get caught if they take necessary precautions.
And most single men confess they are initially very careful not to appear too interested, lest they find themselves headed for a commitment they're not ready for.
If he doesn’t show her how he feels with his eyes, his voice, the brush of his hand against her back, her shoulder, how will she know he wants her?